God’s example shows us the way of satisfaction. His empowerment fuels our search for satisfaction. But most importantly, his Son motivates our satisfaction and makes it possible, because he shows us that the Lord’s satisfaction is more important than our own.
Jesus satisfied God’s justice so we could be satisfied by his mercy. Jesus filled himself with our sin so we could be filled with his righteousness. Jesus is ready; we have only to ask for more of him, and we’ll be the most satisfied people on the planet: “Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full” (John 16:24). Wisdom pushes us toward the Lord to rub shoulders with his Son, who is our life.
If you are the unhappy romantic, you might look to Jesus’ example to show you how to love. You might even ask for his Spirit to help you love rightly. In the end, however, your only hope is to rest in the fact that Jesus already loves and respects you. He suffered for your failure to obey him, and God treats you as his son or daughter – as though Jesus’ obedience were your own.
Drawing nearer to the Lord through the grace of Christ will melt your heart and conform it to his heart. Then it won’t be so bad if you don’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend; all you’ll need is Christ. If you do get hitched, you’ll do it for Jesus and not yourself, which is so much more satisfying. It’s okay if another person lets you down, because Jesus never will.
I know someone who is totally satisfied with his life. He has a high-powered professional career, a beautiful and delightful girlfriend, a lovely home in the heart of a large city, and a perfect home theater system. He has plenty of golfing buddies. His future looks good. His goals are clear. I love this man, and I pray that he’ll get to know Christ. I’ve tried telling him the Good News, but how do you convince someone that he needs Jesus when he already has everything he wants? What concerns me most is not that he wants too much, but that he doesn’t really want enough. He settles for small corporeal pleasures, but doesn’t see that these things will end up letting him down. Please pray for him, and for others you know like him, that his quest for satisfaction would culminate in the best place possible: with Jesus.
And let’s be the kind of people who turn to the Lord for our satisfaction and reflect his joy and glory in everything we do.
Alison Amaismeier says
Psalm 63:3
Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you.